When someone is a perfectionist they have difficulties accepting anything short of perfect. Some might think of this as an asset. Having high standards helps you achieve right? Not quite. Why? Perfectionism can result in paralyzing anxiety and prevent people from even trying to work towards their goals. And, even when perfectionism does help someone accomplish their goals, it comes at a cost. When someone has perfectionistic tendencies, nothing is ever good enough, including their achievements, which can lead to chronic feelings of inadequacy or even depression. Luckily, there is an alternative, self-compassion, which not only helps people achieve but improves mental health. Haven't heard about self-compassion? Check out this blog post!
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